LEAVING a MARK ~ RELATIONSHIP GIFT

Each person in your life brings something. Many leave a mark that never goes away. It becomes a part of you. Even those that needed to leave your life, for you, for him, for....some reasons that finally made you realize fighting so hard to make it work, was not as life-worthy, as reasons that weighed in and made it known to you, that it had to end. Even though, you know this, it is still hard. And one day at a time, of just taking a step after a step, you get through the thicket of emotional stresses, that come with change. It's most likely a good human characteristic, that it is hard to say good bye, even though, it is the healthy, right thing to choose.  

 

A past one, that had to end, though I hung on trying so very hard to make it work, now, after 15 years of much necessary intertwined life, but not together - it feels so right. To be alone. Without him in my life. So happy I hung in there and made the separation work. But, the marks that are left linger on. And I am so grateful for the parts that became me. What becomes you, needs you to welcome it, accept it. Music is pretty much my life. But he introduced me to music, I didn't have in my experience, yet. Now, it is mine. Though, he is not a part of my daily life. ~ No love, no friendship Can cross the path of our destiny Without leaving some mark on it forever. Francois Mauriac

     

In the Air Tonight by Phil Collins

I can feel it coming in the air tonight, oh Lord
And I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord
Can you feel it coming in the air tonight, oh Lord, oh Lord
Well if you told me you were drowning, I would not lend a hand
I've seen your face before my friend, but I don't know if you know who I am
Well I was there and I saw what you did, I saw it with my own two eyes
So you can wipe off that grin, I know where you've been
It's all been a pack of lies
And I can feel it coming in the air tonight, oh Lord
Well I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord
I can feel it coming in the air tonight, oh Lord
Well I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord, oh Lord
Well I remember, I remember, don't worry, how could I ever forget
It's the first time, the last time we ever met
But I know the reason why you keep your silence up, oh no you don't fool me
Well the hurt doesn't show, but the pain still grows
It's no stranger to you and me
I can feel it coming in the air tonight, oh Lord
Well been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord
I can feel it in the air tonight, oh Lord, oh Lord
Well I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord
I can feel it coming in the air tonight, oh Lord
And I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord
I can feel it in the air tonight, oh Lord, oh Lord, oh Lord
Well I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord, oh Lord
I can feel it in the air tonight, oh Lord, oh Lord, oh Lord, oh Lord
Well I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord, oh Lord, oh Lord.

  

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